Protecting Your Reputation in Divorce
Divorce is a public process. Not only are most court records public, but individuals with a high net worth might also be public figures in the fields of business, finance, sports, or arts and entertainment. The press is naturally interested in what is happening in your marriage. Unfortunately, your spouse might be eager to air some dirty laundry, which can devastate your reputation.
What can you do? Fortunately, there are a few simple steps men and women can take if they are preparing for divorce to limit the fallout. These steps work for anyone, regardless of their income or status.
Hire the Right Divorce Lawyer
A lawyer does more than advocate in court for a client. Lawyers are also trusted advisors who have been around the block. At Hamilton O’Neill, we have seen many couples go through divorce. Some handle it well, and others make mistakes which result in negative publicity and embarrassment.
Lean on our advice. We are always a phone call away to answer your questions.
Stay Away from Social Media
You never know if something you post will trigger your soon-to-be ex. Suddenly, you are in a flame war on Instagram or Facebook with your spouse, who decides to unload on you. The best strategy is to stay off social media until your divorce is finalized.
Going cold turkey might be impossible, especially if you use social media as part of your business. Real estate agents, reporters, and even lawyers increasingly establish social media footprints to generate leads. Going dark might not be an option from a financial standpoint.
If going dark is impossible, then keep social media posts focused on business and very clean. Avoid any mention of your private life, your spouse, or your children.
Keep New Relationships Private
There is a strong argument for avoiding a new relationship until your divorce is finalized. For one thing, adultery can negatively impact your divorce or, at least, make your divorce a lot more messy.. You do not want to invite questions about whether adultery contributed to the breakdown of your marriage.
You can post a new relationship on social media later. If you are a very visible figure, then it is common to wait at least a year after divorce before going public with a new relationship.
Do Not Bad Mouth Your Spouse
Never say anything negative about your spouse, even privately. Simply assume anything you say will automatically find its way back to your spouse, who could blow up and start trashing you online. If anyone asks about the divorce, you can simply nod and say, “It’s a difficult time.” Most people have the grace not to pry.
Maintain Professionalism at Work
Most people build their public reputation through work. It is vital to continue with the same professionalism. You do not want your business colleagues to notice anything out of the ordinary.
Talk with Our Miami Divorce Lawyers
Hamilton O’Neill is a prominent law firm for high-end divorces. We know that divorce involves more than signing papers or appearing in court. Managing your reputation is a big part of the process as well. To speak with a Miami divorce lawyer, contact us today.
Source:
womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a60980466/what-is-soft-launch/